He woke up at 7:51. I went into the bedroom and he quieted down after a few seconds, then shut the door, with both of us inside. We got up on the bed in the dark and played under the blanket for awhile with the stuffed animals. Turned on the light when he started stalking about reading to Peter Rabbit. Eventually got up and continued on with our morning, having oatmeal for breakfast, watching songs on the iPad, etc. We left the house right at 10. August was excited about riding a bus downtown, so we walked to the stop for the 172. He kept talking about the 1144, his now favorite bus. We got a couple seats near the back and settled in for the long ride. Got the iPad out, but spent a lot of the ride looking out the window and playing I Spy. And a lot of asking “This is?” – referring both to the neighborhood/spot (he clearly understands that subway stops have different names, and seems to be applying that to bus stops as well) and specific objects he sees.
Got off at Anguk and walked up to the Museum of Modern and Contemporary Art. Stopped a few times along the way because he wanted to read a banner about today’s election, and signs on the roadway (One Way, etc.) Got to the museum and he said “Food!” so we sat on a bench behind the museum and started to eat lunch. After a few minutes he said “Leaking!” and he was, so we went inside to the changing room and changed him and ate a little more. He was fascinated by the sink and water dispenser – we had to refill his water there. Before we left, a couple came in and were changing a baby, and August was very concerned (or hoping?) about the baby falling. We had to stay until they were mostly done before we could leave.
Before we had entered the museum I had asked him “Ready to see some art?” And he had replied with “See some shapes.” We then also talked about looking for colors, patterns, and textures. We didn’t actually end up doing much of that, but it was a cool conversation. Inside, most of the big shows were closed. He really liked the Art Box piece though, with the falling water spelling words. Watched that for several minutes, and saw Spanish and ‘Ñ’s and English. Left when it switched to German. The Ahn Kyuchul show was still up, and we went in the curtained rooms just a bit, then went back to the big echo chamber piece. August loved this, and started making noises, then sang ABC. A docent came in and told us we had to be quiet. I went out to talk to him about that and he pointed to the title of the piece ‘Silent Room’. That wasn’t an instruction, mind you, just the title of the piece. I wanted to explain to him that the title was supposed to be ironic, as it is only a silent room when no one is in it, and as soon as you are in it it stops being silent, as even the rustling of clothes echoes. And last time I was in it people were whistling, snapping, making noise, etc. Anyway, I think he just wanted us to be quiet when other people came through, but hard to expect a 25 month old to just quiet down when other people enter. Just another example of art museums not really welcoming children here (see: furniture show at Design Experience Zone, etc.)
Anyway, there was only one other show. We went in that, and started out well. But then there was a series of drawings with writing on them (“blah blah blah” and other things). August wanted down, but then wanted to touch (it was behind glass). I was holding him back, not letting him, when another docent came over. Not sure what her plan was, but it sent his frustration over the edge and there was a lot of screaming after that. Took him out and walked around until he calmed down, then we looked at the gift shops for a few minutes and left.
He was acting tired, but seemed early for a nap. Put him in the backpack and we headed north and up the winding street we walked with Chuck and Cherie. We stopped at one gallery along the way to look at some art. Past where I sat that time when he took a nap, then we saw on the neighborhood maps a park, Samcheong Park. We headed for that. On the way up we saw a train museum and a sign for an owl museum. Figured we would check them out on the way down.
We got up to the park and he was quiet. Could tell he was close to sleep as he didn’t say anything walking past the playground near the entrance. He did want me to turn on water at a drinking fountain. Kept walking, up into the park, first through a higher nature playground, then started walking up a path to a lookout point. This is when he fell asleep. A couple hundred steps later I found a rest area and bench and settled down. He slept from 1:19 to 2:14. Quiet location at first, but as time went on more and more people came by, including big groups of hikers and tourists. He woke up and wanted to sit on the bench. We were eating and he was asking for words to spell: miss, mister, cat purr, noise, after, seeds, crackers, etc. He was climbing on the back of the bench area, then on the railing itself. Saw a plastic bottle down below and wanted to go get it and was sad when I wouldn’t let him – later, when we were at the top, he would point to a similar railing and talk about being sad that I wouldn’t let him climb them.
He saw women climbing the stairs and said “Going upping!” There were people behind me and he started hiding from them; he was then singing for the crowd. Two people offered him candy, which I declined. One woman said “Ai-po!” (pretty) and he immediately said back “Ai-po. How bout ai-po?” Sadly, it is what people have said to him a million times, but I’ve never figured out how it is spelled. Changed him twice on the platform – once after he woke up because he was leaking, then he pooped.
I wanted to go to the top, and August was up for it. In fact, he wanted to walk up himself. He tackled the stairs himself, and only wanted my help when they got too steep (got that moment on video). In fact, he was quite daring, wanting to climb up the rocks and all. We got to the top and he got a rock that he held on to and wanted to drop in water. So we headed back down to find water. He wanted to walk at first, but I convinced him to go in the backpack. He heard someone say ‘kimchi’ when taking a photo (the equivalent of “Cheese!”), and said “Kinchi. Don’t fall.” All the way back down he kept asking “Where the wawa?”
We got back down to the upper playground and got down and played with some rocks and a big chunk of wood for a few minutes, and watched a bee buzz around. He picked up the chunk of wood and said “Parallelogram!” (it was actually something more like a trapezium, but close enough). He still wanted water, so we grabbed a second rock and headed down to a little stream area I had spotted but avoided on the way up.
It was pretty perfect. It was small, and there were several other people there, including a couple having a picnic. But the stream kind of went around the corner a few feet and we could go over there and actually step across the stream to where there were a ton of rocks. Threw rocks in, then got interested in flower petals and would drop those in the water (“More flower petals!”) There was a sign telling you you couldn’t go farther up the stream. It said ‘Stop’ so he kept reading that and turned it into a little song. He also wanted to look for frogs (none of those around). And we took off his shoes and socks so he could put his toes in the water. He was pretty daring walking/climbing on the side of the stream, and I told him that if he fell in he would have to wear his yellow pants (which he continues to refuse to wear).
Looking at the time, I knew we were going to run late, so let Carly know. Eventually, around 4:30 I think, he started talking about going home. We went back to the backpack and put on his shoes. He saw the sticky spot on his shoe and remembered that it was “from picnic” (Easter). A minute later, the woman having a picnic offered him cheese cubes – which he had first (and only) eaten at that picnic. He was so cute taking the three cheese c
ubes from her, then whispering “Thank you”. He ate the cheese cubes as I put him in the backpack, and he interacted with her and another woman across from us, reading off the letters on her shirt. He also waved and said “Bye!” to everyone as we left.
We walked down, stopping at the drinking fountain for a drink. Then we walked by the first playground again. This time, he wanted to play. At first he started to whine, but then I had him ask nicely. He said “For a few minutes…look for garbage.” I said “Oh my gosh”, which he then parroted back to me. I then said “You are funny” and he parroted that as well. Got him down and he started running around, playing. He was putting sand on everything: platforms, benches, toys, pieces of garbage and, as I took a video, on the back of a girl. She didn’t notice and soon stood up and it fell off.
We left and started the long walk back. Walking back was slow as the sidewalks were now crowded. We stopped to check out the train museum, and he pushed the buttons on the trains outside for awhile. We were singing the ABC tongue twister song, and he said “Zinnie do it.” He had the first 4 letters down, then needed help. He know a lot of it though. We took the street behind the MMCA and he was reading off signs. He said “C H I C A G O” and it was the sign for the pizza place we ate with Cherie and Chuck, so we stopped and I told him about that.
We finally got to Anguk Station and got on the subway. A boy dressed in hanbok sat next to us and August was fascinated by his clothes, to the point that he kept trying to touch him, both with his finger and his foot. We got to Seokgye Station, and August wanted to walk down the stairs. I was holding his hands and he started to take two steps at a time. I told him to do one step at a time, but he kept taking two and said “Uh-oh one at a time!” Sigh.
At Seokgye there’s a little park area, and he asked what a sculpture was. I said “Arte abstracto” and asked what he thought it was. He thought about it, and said “Nose. With snot.” We then got on a bus, and as we drove away he said “Bye snot! With nose!”
Got home about 6:40. A pretty long adventure. Carly made him a pizza bagel, which he ate a little of. We had snacked on pine nuts, crackers, and banana chips on the way home. He nursed a lot and they read books and Carly gave him a bath. I played with him on the bed with the animals and balloons, and he had a hilarious time playing with Marshy and making him dance and holding him upside down. August fell asleep about 9.
Shirts seen today:
– not tour guide
– not a human being what’s limitation?
New words/phrases: spelling ‘miss’, reading ‘kind’, reading ‘kids’
Waking up:



Art museum:

Nap spot:

Up to the top:

View from the top:

These were some of the stairs he climbed up:

First play spot. “Parallelogram!”:

Stream:

Flower petal:

Playground:
Train museum:

Walking:
“Nose. With snot.”:

Looking out the window of the bus:

Waiting for Carly to pour milk in the smoothie:







































































































